Might I just start this off by saying I DO date christian guys. In fact, I prefer to date christian guys. So don't get your facts wrong.
The title of this post might automatically raise some eyebrows, or even offend a few people. They might scoff, look around to see who is seeing this, and then scroll on. Honestly, if it were me reading instead of writing, I would be intrigued. Finally, someone has an answer, I might think. Because I was one of those girls growing up who was raised to think that good christian girls could only date good christian boys. And, yes, ten or twenty years ago, that would be the case. Oh, here we go, you're thinking. She's just one of those teenage girls who's going to say 'it's not that way anymore' or 'times have changed'. I'm not saying that the standards should be any different. I think it's better if young girls date a guy who has the same standards and will uphold the same boundaries and morals as she.
MY PROBLEM (yes, those are shouty capitals that are indicative of a rant) is that CHRISTIAN BOYS THESE DAYS are so IMMATURE and CAN'T GET THEIR ACT TOGETHER that the good christian GIRLS get IMPATIENT waiting for them to REALIZE that COOTIES DON'T EXIST that they move on to a guy that, yeah, he might not be a christian, but he doesn't worship the devil, and he isn't going to pressure her to have sex every time their alone. Honestly. Christian guys these days are so immature in all the wrong ways. They're going to be 40 by the time they realize that yeah, they might want to get married and move out of their parent's basement some day.
Meanwhile, the other guys (if you can find the one in twenty guys that doesn't smoke pot) actually has a career! He has plans to buy a house, and find a girl to settle down with. He actually has the nerve to give you his phone number, and ask you out on a date. Parents these days wonder why their daughter can't date that nice christian guy that serves at church and it has nothing to do with her! She talks to him and flirts and does everything she can to show him she's interested in him, and meanwhile he just wants to hang out with the guys, and thinks that girls are of the devil.
Responsibility! you shout. Uh, yeah, okay. There's responsibility, and then there's 'Don't look her in the eyes! That will ruin your reputation!'
I'm so fed up. They think that just because their under the age of 25 means that they can't be caught dead hanging out with a girl, or, heaven forbid, talking to her outside of church. Honestly. You're approaching 20. My CHRISTIAN father was married before he was 21.
Yeah, I'm gonna get some flak for this, but it needs to be said. We're getting tired of it.
